I don't get to this point easily but I'm finally there my emotional braking point... I'm trying to…

I don't get to this point easily but I'm finally there my emotional braking point... I'm trying to get the apt clean and ready for when my husband's cousins come tomorrow and for when John is born and wall trying to clean and fight/take care of our almost 2 year old I'm getting stressed out more then I already am my husband is not helping all he is doing is cleaning off his computer desk and playing with his electronics... well I kinda snapped at my daughter she started getting in to things left and right and I got her out if it and spanked her on the butt and said you need to get out of mommy's room I need 5mins to myself and shut my door :( I feel really bad that I snapped like I did but dame my husband needs to help me so I can get things done if he is not going to help by cleaning then he should keep our daughter occupied so I can get things done easer :( sorry I know my grammar is bad but I'm fighting back crying :(

I have a headache I'm running on very little sleep I'm sore stressed and I have so much to do... sorry again and I'm sorry for venting :(