id feel so bad taking my daughter away from her dad but i cant stick around like this anymore idk what to do....
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i just want to leave, like i said i don't want to go through court
if you go to court and custody is established.. you can have him arrested for keeping your child away from you..keep in mind he is the abuser, that has to be reported..so he can't get the baby..just supervised visitation.. if that..you can leave the state if you wanted once you feel like he will harm you..you can file a report and leave until court
i know i just really dont EVER want to go through it....like if i take her and he goes to court and wins some kind of custody rights, and can just take her without me and to his families, i dont trust that either...his mom sucks at taking care of kids thats why all hers are so screwed up and id never let her babysit my daughter and her sons dont even barely see their kids because theyre all pieces of shit @lovelyladyj86
why chance it ..they can become very spiteful and vindictive
that how abusers train the people they abuse..to make you feel like what's going in is your fault.. and that's not true.. you were not born to be a doormat or punching bag..At all.
when a baby is born ..you both have the same rights..so he can take her and you would have to go thru court to get her back..I say you make that move first..
I was in your exact and I mean exact situation in 2010..he can claim that but if you leave got to the hospital get you and the baby checked out for any bodily harm.. the key is to make a paper trail..that you are trying to make sure you and the baby are safe...get out pack and leave you have too..he will blame you..it will not stop...you have to accept an apologie from him you will never get..look..I really feel for you..I know what your going thru I'm in Maryland..please...don't stay like I did I almost died in front my children..I woke up after the attack to see them trying to wake me up..they were covers in my blood..please...get out...
what if he calls the police and says i kidnapped her @lovelyladyj86 youre completely right, i hope i find the power to leave idk why i feel bad for him i could never hurt him as much as hes hurt me, maybe i have idk but i know i dont deserve this, i want to blame him for the reason our relationship is like this, that its gotten this bad because of him but hes good at making me feel like its my fault as well
you have a right to do what you need to do to protect you and your child..letting your self stay in a situation where you or you both can be harmed isn't worth it...consider if the right person feels compelled to call the police or CPS, you could loose your baby..I know she's waaaayyyy to important to you to let that happen, my ex husband tried to kill me in front of my two oldest.. they do get to a point where they don't care..AT ALL..GET OUT,WHILE YOU CAN...PLEASE!
i know there is but it's not even about me like its unfair if i leave the state with our daughter @carlitojrmami
If you need someone to talk to or meet up with please let me know. I live in ashburn on far from you.
its just so hard @lovelyladyj86 my sister couldve drove here but i told her not to now im wishing i didnt
what's best for you and the baby is what comes first.
Get a protective order so you're not blamed for taking the baby and disappearing because he can hold that against U. U need proof that he's bad for the baby. Evidence of him ever harming your child. Im in Virginia and im going through a case with my soon to be ex husband. Virginia is extremely strict when it comes to parenting matters