My son's father isn't allowed to talk to me or we would have a protection from harassment put on him. He's so verbally abusive. I regret everything about him. My son deserves so much better and so do I. At this point he's not allowed at the hospital or anything anymore. It's sad how men can be so immature when they're at fault too.

@cass_lynne, I wish he wasn't the father sometimes either by the way he acts 🙄 I love this little boy to death and would never say anything like the way he says things about him

My child's father said the same thing to me. Still does. He says it's all my fault. My response, maybe if you didn't sleep around and not use condoms you wouldn't have 4 kids, one of those a newborn and a 5th one on the way

Thank you LORD someone has said it. I've been blamed by my son's biological father's family this entire pregnancy saying it's my fault. But he knew I got off birth control because it wasn't working and constantly said he "wasn't worried"'about getting pregnant. When it happened I got all the blame and because I chose to keep it his family and him made it worst for me. He didn't want to tell anyone I was pregnant and wanted me to keep it a secret because his life and friends were more important... 😑 his mother also put in his head it wasn't his kid and he should order a test.. I wish it wasn't his kid. Pos.

Your boyfriend should know the risks to sex AND that birth control is NEVER 100% guaranteed unless it's abstinence. Tell him to go look up the highest success rates for birth control methods. It'll put him in his place. It is not your fault, if there must be blame though you can blame both of you, like you said, takes 2 to tango! It's not like you were being a creep somehow & stealing his swimmers to try to impregnate yourself lol.

You could always ditch him & have him sign his rights over. I wouldn't want anyone, especially the father of my baby, calling her a mistake. I wouldn't even want that person around them if that's how they're going to talk about her. That's like asking for them to hurt your baby emotionally & mentally. I'm sorry you're going through that.

I'm right there with you ladies... The only exception is that my hubby doesn't believe his mom at all! My iud failed! Neither him nor I knew.. He was upset at first but he's fully on board now.. He says she may be unplanned but she is his baby and he wants to be there for us. He knew I wasn't trying to get pregnant for sure when I told him we could separate so he didn't have to be there for her... His mind set changed a lot that day.

Don't be sorry, I'm the one that's literally gonna laugh in her face when she sees my daughter come out white as a ghost (david and I are both extremely pale lol, well me kind of at least right now I am. )

@rainbowbaby2015, ugh like seriously who does say that! I'm sorry honey that she would even say anything like that to you

me and my babies father mom bump heads a lot to the point I said she wasn't aloud to be in my baby girls life and on the baby shower invite I put his stepdad and brothers only so she knew I wasn't playing. She constantly asks my baby dad if he's the father and his mom and step mom have both said when my baby comes out black (I dating black guys before my boyfriend and he's the only white dude I have ever been with) I'm gonna look a fool making david (my babies dad) stick around for a kid that isn't even his. like who says that?!?!

@_idekcats, that's for sure! Like sorry but girls don't do it themselves!

and boys believe everything their mom says!!!

I understand , she told my boyfriend I ruined his life. 😂

@_idekcats, oh my boyfriends mom told him that and now it's stuck in his dang head and he thinks it's all my fault that I'm pregnant like you know the risks of sex! Pregnancy is one of them!! Guys and their moms need to mature 🙄

my boyfriends mom said it was all my fault I was pregnant Bc my birth control failed lol.