Rant for the day (non pregnancy related)
I got my income tax last week. A pretty good chunk. I did not tell my mom because I knew she would ask and I wouldn't be able to tell her no. Well of course she found out. Hiding that kind of money isn't easy. Within a matter of 4 days I gave her well over $500 PLUS bought her anything she asked for. Well this morning she came to me and asked if she could "borrow" some money until she got her check. I told her no and ever since then she's been so mad at me....just why? Last time I checked, I was the daughter and she was the mother. Now I don't mind helping. I actually enjoy giving. It makes me feel good BUT there is a huge difference in giving and being taken for granted. How in the hell is she going to be mad at me!? I don't owe her shit! I have a family I'm trying to support. She then had the nerve to look at me crooked and make a smart ass laugh and say "I know you're not broke jaycee" Well no mom I'm not broke but my money is my money! I think I've done enough for you! AND on top of that, my son's father is super pissed at me because I didn't give him half of my tax return. Now this man is am incredible father to our son BUT I don't owe him shit either. He gets Axel on the weekends and DOES NOT pay child support! So tell me once again...why would I give him anything!?? I have our son 98% of the year!!!!
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OK so mommies there's this lady just ask me to help her. So I said yes because I thought she wanted advice but instead she asks me for money . I told her I couldn't and I'm sorry but I don't know her plus I don't have any money to give away she keeps asking . what should I do?
I am sick to death of my in laws telling me how fat Scarlett is, and asking me what I feed her! Does she look fat to you? No!
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Omg ladies my 3 year old just asked me if i have sex with her daddy!!! I dodged that question so fast but ladies really my daughter is growing up too fast and too smart for her own good. I dont even know what to tell her if she ask again I thought i had a little longer before she asked that. I texted my husband telling him and he just laughed. He is no help.
you are waaaayy too nice. Gotta learn to say no once in a while. there's nothing wrong with that. just hope that when you need them they'll be there for you like you have