Never thought I would be using the word compare to but here I am. I'm completely torn about what to do he is currently in jail and we haven't spoken since he was arrested in October. He broke some things when he came over and he shoved me his court date is the month the baby is due (March 8) and part of me wants him to be there but I've never seen him like that before. We both decided to have this baby he doesn't even know I'm having a boy. I also had to get a restraining order against him because I live with my mother and she said she didn't feel save unless I got one against him. It's been really hard on me being pregnant not having him to hold me, no one to talk to I don't even know how he feels about me at this point. I'm so lost
It's easier to raise a baby by your self than to do it with someone who make life harder and more stressful to you. You might be lonely but you'll be a lot happier than with someone you have to constantly worry about, that's for your new baby.
@melissa150, that's my birthday ayeeee but I think u should just do what's best for the baby if he not making no effort or maybe it'll work out when the baby come gosh I can't imagine if my bd didn't talk to me in 4 months I'll be devastated as well , u love him right but den again I wouldn't let nobody disrespect me he showed u his real side
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
so idk what to do im supposed to be moving out with my bf, baby daddy he is 14 yrs older then me and he has his niece that is 25 that lives with him and she has a daughter that's almost 6 but on day she was being stupid and told me that I might have her daughters dad closer then me then i though since then we have had lots of fights about it and he always says it's not his daughter but why would she say that and why would he have gotten so mad when i questioned him about it and every time he pos...
Mamas I really need some advice or just a listening ear, I really don't know what to do, or if I'm overreacting, but my baby's father and I are together, when we met and I got pregnant he was here working, he went back to work out of town after I found out I was pregnant and only comes back once a month, he supports me financially, which was mostly his choice bc he makes good money, we are doing fine on money.. but I'm almost 31 weeks and as I get closer I'm really worried about raising my daugh...
So over this feeling!
Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just cause we don't like them and find he self soothes. For the past three times my mother has had him, she has gone against our rule and given him a dummy and of course I spoke to her about it (that's all my knowledge on how many times she's done it). On Sunday we celebrated my stepfathers birthday and due to OH working I had to do it alone which isn't the thing that bothered me. The...
Any man that would put his hands on a woman in a harmful way is not the kind of man that you should want around your kid, I know it'd be hard him not being there for you as well but you have to think about your guys saftey