Never thought I would be using the word compare to but here I am. I'm completely torn about what to do he is currently in jail and we haven't spoken since he was arrested in October. He broke some things when he came over and he shoved me his court date is the month the baby is due (March 8) and part of me wants him to be there but I've never seen him like that before. We both decided to have this baby he doesn't even know I'm having a boy. I also had to get a restraining order against him because I live with my mother and she said she didn't feel save unless I got one against him. It's been really hard on me being pregnant not having him to hold me, no one to talk to I don't even know how he feels about me at this point. I'm so lost
It's easier to raise a baby by your self than to do it with someone who make life harder and more stressful to you. You might be lonely but you'll be a lot happier than with someone you have to constantly worry about, that's for your new baby.
@melissa150, that's my birthday ayeeee but I think u should just do what's best for the baby if he not making no effort or maybe it'll work out when the baby come gosh I can't imagine if my bd didn't talk to me in 4 months I'll be devastated as well , u love him right but den again I wouldn't let nobody disrespect me he showed u his real side
Any man that would put his hands on a woman in a harmful way is not the kind of man that you should want around your kid, I know it'd be hard him not being there for you as well but you have to think about your guys saftey