of course girl:) when are you due?

It is her first grand baby, and I get that but she's not even sorry for making me feel like shit for wanting only my doctor in the room, it's just The way I want things done, during the time my legs are up and everything's exposed I just wanna be in there alone, thank you for Atleast understanding lol. Something no one else does @mareesan

yess i understand girl:) do what makes you happy your baby your way!:)

is this her first grandbaby? my mom acts this way accidental not realizing shes not letting me make decisions for myself or my child. she is just overly excited since its the first grandbaby great grandbaby etc. she said im sorry if im acting like the mom etc i am just happy and excited pls let me know if i am going overboard. my mom and bf and his mom will be in the room. i say my mom only because we are very close and she always has a way of calming me down and knows all about birth and things. but she does need to respect your wishes. im sorry momma! your having to worry and get so upset

I know she did but I know how she is and she's gonna get on my nerves so bad that I blow up on her while I'm getting him out and I don't want that. I just need to do that alone with my doctor and nurses. @mareesan

that's right @rylansmomma . I wish you luck ma'am.

shes probably just upset because she wanted to be there in a special moment with you love

I don't want any drama that day it's damn sad that she wants to cause all kinds of drama because she don't get her way. And God forbid I hold my baby too long and take away from her time. She acts like I'm carrying her kid. Not mine. I just wish she wasn't like that. But if she can't deal with the fact I don't want anyone in my face while I'm trying to focus and breathe and push, then she don't need to be there at all. @pepperramos @paisleysmom

wow @rylansmomma ,,, I wish I could go help you out with this problem, I had an ugly situation similar, if I was you, keep her away for a while, if she doesn't respect you nor your wishes, she will always be judging you by the way you are doing things, and telling you that you are doing everything wrong, and just looking for one thing to give her leverage, so trust me, don't let her even know when you go to labor, let alone in your home. it's all about you and your baby. I did this with my 8 year old, my mother didn't meet my baby until he was close to 3 years old.

She's just mad bc she thought she was entitled. She thought she was gonna get to hold the baby before I got to, that she was gonna get to bottle feed him before I ever get the chance to try and breastfeed, thought she would take a day for me and make it about her. There's a log story to all of this, she's threatened to have my baby taken from me, and given to her, I mean I love her but she thinks it's a game.

that's an awful thing for her to say ! :(

I only let me bf in the room. but if its comfortable for just u to have your Dr and nurses I completely understand . its stressful enough without having other people in your face while your trying to push a baby out.

she'll just have to get over it.

Yes. She don't understand I don't need anyone ringing in my ear In that moment. I get distracted easy and I need to focus. She knows that. Thank you. @jupiterviridian

it's such a personal choice too so she really should respect your decision @rylansmomma

whoa, she should be thankful that you would allow her their at all with such negative vibes, no one needs that but especially in a time like that. It's your choice, and your child and special day. I hope all works out well for you.

I just don't want anyone in there i wanna be able to focus on breathing and pushing and I only want to hear the nurses coaching me. And she's mad because this time it's not all about her. @angelkisses

more reason to not have her in there if she can't respect your wishes @rylansmomma