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Adrianna
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Alright ladies I need HELP!

Alright ladies I need HELP!

So I just heard my roommates BF beating her ass AGAIN! I have no idea what to do because her BF is violent and has been to jail blah blah blah. He doesn't live here, not on the lease at all and the apartment complex hasn't done anything with the numerous complaints from me, other roommates, and our parents since Sept 2014. Being I'm pregnant I'm really not trying to get involved but I don't feel safe AT ALL! What should I do? Let her continue getting knocked out by her BF, or take action? 🤔

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10yearslater0205

Shannon Catullo

Мама двоих (10 лет, 13 лет), ждёт третьего

He is a no good pig

10yearslater0205

Shannon Catullo

Мама двоих (10 лет, 13 лет), ждёт третьего

Get a restraining order against him so he can't be in ur apt lol

dang_dridri

Adrianna

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@nichole_lynn, thank you. And tell me about it!

missing330user

missing330user

Мама сына-младенца

good luck girl! I wish you the best! that such a cruddy situation to be in 😪 @dang_dridri

dang_dridri

Adrianna

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@nichole_lynn, I've called them before and they said they couldn't remove him because she didn't want them too and the apartments aren't doing anything either. But my mom is highly pissed off and she's trying to suing the complex for multiple lease violations and get me out of here by the end of the month.

missing330user

missing330user

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ahhhh, that kinda girl. well at this point if you feel for YOUR safety I'd call the cops. that way he can't return because you feel "unsafe" with him around.

dang_dridri

Adrianna

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@nichole_lynn, I don't think she will girl. She's like head over hills for this guy. Me and the other girls have tried to "help" her but she's not trying to hear it. One time she said they were just having a water balloon fight. . .in her room!

missing330user

missing330user

Мама сына-младенца

walk in the room with a baseball batt and say "get the fuck out or I'm calling the cops" he won't dare hit a pregnant women, and your roommate will thank you later. @dang_dridri

dang_dridri

Adrianna

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@sassymama29, we are so annoyed and tired of them. @snowbaby313 RESTRAINING ORDER! I didn't think of that. But I don't want to cause any drama for myself. Like I have ZERO patience for drama.

snowbaby313

Crystal

Многодетная мама (6 детей), беременна

should have recorded it for evidence and then called the police! Then if you are o. the lease and you do not feel safe get a restraining order!

sassymama29

Samantha

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Smh that is just sad . She is definitely too young to be dealing with that. And as her roommates I would be annoyed.

dang_dridri

Adrianna

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@krstokes2016, I'll message you right now.

krstokes2016

josephine

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ive helped remove people before because of just yelling matches without physical abuse but i know everywhere is different :/ i hope she decides to consent to police getting him before it gets too crazy. @dang_dridri what does she say when someone tries to talk sense into her about the situation? if you want write me

dang_dridri

Adrianna

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@jhussey, because it's student apartments it's leased by bedroom and I've tried to talk to her about it but all she does is make excuses for everything he does. It's crazy. It's like she's so blind to reality!

dang_dridri

Adrianna

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@krstokes2016, the police said the apartment complex are the only ones that can make them remove him without her consent and they're not doing shit. They probably won't do anything until she's dead or something!

jhussey

jhussey

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Tell her you want her to move out if she's going to refuse help. You shouldn't have to deal with that. If she's telling the police she doesn't want him removed, then she needs to find another place to live.

dang_dridri

Adrianna

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@sassymama29, my mom is super pissed! Lol. I stay in student apartments and was going to finish my lease and move out this summer. But now my mom is like no, you're moving out now! Like seriously they have the most dysfunctional relationship I've ever seen. I guess because she's still young. She just turned 18 and he's 21. Neither of them work and she's taking care of him, but her parents are the ones taking care of her. It's so stupid!

krstokes2016

josephine

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next time it happens record what goes on even if its just sound and call police. from the sounds of it there should be plenty physical evidence and at that point with recordings itll add to it. also document when the disturbances happen by date and how long they last and severity. they (police) will have to remove him at some point for her and others safety. i hope the situation gets resolved :(

sassymama29

Samantha

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Smh you are right they won't get involved unless she wants to take action. So sadly I guess you just have to do nothing . That really sucks

dang_dridri

Adrianna

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@sassymama29, oh naaaa. This girl can't save anyone! Lol. And the police won't remove him.

dang_dridri

Adrianna

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@3girls, the police came once and said they can't remove him because she didn't want him removed and the apartments aren't considering our (me & the other roommates) safety.

sassymama29

Samantha

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Call the cops anonymously that's the most you can do . Don't try going in there planning captain save a hoe lol .

3girls

3girls

i would call the police while it is happening

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