I dont think you realize how lil as a new bra can effect you. I havent been able to buy a new bra in 2 years, and I usually dont like my bf to spend so much on me. well he knows that ive been needing one , so he went and got me 3 from torrid. which if theres any big girls out there, yal know how expensive they are. I dont feel as self conscience anymore for wearing one that doesnt even hook right in back or doesnt even have underwire any more. He may be a pain at times but he does know how to make me feel better :)