Rant .... Oh my god family when I was pregnant the second time I had picked the name scarlett for a girl but ended up woth mu lovely little man so when my Sister-in-law got pregnant she wanted to use scarlett if it was a girl I wasn't bothered but she ended up with my nephew she was at 20 week scan and when we found out it was a girl the first thing she said was your not taking scarlett that's my name ... I wasn't bothered as I had fallen in love with the name poppy and now she knows she is saying she was going to call her baby poppy if it was a girl and I've stolen her name ... omg families all over a name ughhhhh well my daughter is called Poppy and I'm not changing it and that's that