I really wish my mom would just give up on the while last name thing. my Baby's Father and I aren't married but he is still getting his daddy's last name. it pissed my mom off so freaking bad and I don't understand why. we have been together for 2 years, we've been living together for over a year and a half, and we are all together just content with how our lives are. we don't need a ring to prove our love to each other. I've honestly never really seen a point in marriage. she just won't give up....I'm perfectly fine not having the same last name as my Son.
It's just getting ridiculous!! ugh she won't even try and see it from my point of view. my sisters dad was a shitty guy that she has just met and my dad was an meth addict who beat her and did a bunch of fucked up stuff. I understand why we all got her last name but I feel like my boyfriends first born son needs his last name. not every man in the world is bad. I told her I'm sorry she feels that way but I will name MY son what ever I feel like naming him
My mom was the same way with both of my kids. I am fine with not having the same last name as them.
It's your choice and she needs to respect that. I'm sorry she's giving you a hard time, just try your best to not let it get you down and stand your ground.