My husband is constantly promising to do something nice for me ... When the time comes he has excuses .. My husband has never cheated or anything he just doesnt know how to be romantic or to treat a girl out . He thinks bowling and take out is just the most extravagant ...

I dont want to sound ungrateful because I love everything my husband's tries to do for me ... But were not getting any younger and the last 5 years the nicest place weve been is the Cheesecake Factory... Ladies how can I get him to improve on how he caters to me without sounding like a bitch ???

Its very frustrating , at times i start to feel not worthy enough of his time and effort .. i mean cmon i shouldnt have to suggest our dates every time ... Usually end up not going because im tired of planning everything ... I want to be surprised ...i want to feel loved ...