Quick! Somebody talk some sense into me! My DD is 12 weeks old and we had a little pregnancy scare (long story short the pill messed with my cycle) but it turned out that I'm not pregnant. My husband was super excited when he thought we were and was almost as disappointed as he'd get when we were TTC our daughter. Since then I've been thinking a little too hard about getting pregnant again right away. Here's the thing, I've always made my opinion on women who get pregnant right after another pregnancy very clear, and my opinion was not positive. I always mentioned how terrible it is for your body, how much it costs to have two kids under two and that it's not fair for the first kid to lose your complete attention before they're ready to be that independent and here I am honestly considering it myself! First off, shame on me for speaking so "knowingly" on something I could never actually know about until after having a kid and second, someone PLEASE talk some sense into me!!!!!!! Every time I ask my husband if he actually wants another kid this quick he just says "I wouldn't be upset" which has me thinking maybe I'll "forget" a pill here or there..
I'm 26 and my husband is 30. I know we have plenty of time to have more kids but our daughter just makes me so happy I would love to have another one! And I'd just love to have them be really close!
I know the feeling! My husband wanted try for #3 when my dd was around 3 months old! No are you crazy xD how old are you btw? Honestly it's really fun having two babies so close together. They're already the best of friends. So don't knock the idea just yet lol @missoliviasmama
In my head I know it's crazy and probably not a good idea but this damn man has me damn near convinced! Lol
Well let me tell you having two under two is no walk in the park! But you know what I absolutely LOVE it. We actually tried to get pregnant when my son was 4 months old and thank god we didn't. We conceived my dd when dS was 9 months old. That's the way we planned it. If you do want them close in age I say wait at least until she's 9-10 months old. It'd be a lot easier on you and your dd.
Well my kids are 2, 1 and I'm due in July. 2 toddlers is exhausting I can't imagine what it'll be like with a 3rd. We didn't plan this one by all means...