if any one knows me they know I love animals and would my self at harm if it ment the animal was…
if any one knows me they know I love animals and would my self at harm if it ment the animal was okay. my sister has 2 big dogs they are pretty well behaved can get a little crazy with jumping which alot of young dogs do. my sisters husband just got back from training. while he was away I took care of the dogs because my sister doesn't like dogs but acts like she does to make him happy. the dogs even slept in my room because I don't want them locked up all the time like she does. now that he's back I expected him and her to take care of them.. I just don't have the energy to bath them and play with them like they need. but their parents won't do any of that they don't even feed them unless I say something or I just do it. the day I was so sick I didn't leave my room they didn't eat.. if they were my dogs I would just do it that's what your supposed to do if you have animals. but I feel so bad because they aren't getting taken care of like they should be. they are starting to smell really bad and they are too big I can't keep them in the bath by myself and when someone gives them a bath the go crazy and jump it's just not safe for me. (overly protective of my baby maybe I'm wrong but if something happened I'd feel horrible) I've told my sister and her husband I can't give them baths. they said I was being stupid and I could I just don't want to.. I lost my shit and said they aren't my dogs I'm doing it to help them. they still don't understand. any tips on how to make them see they need to help to? sorry for the rant. it's probably not even bad I'm just being moody
MamaInNY·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (29 нед.)
thats ridiculous. i would call aspca and get them taken..two grown ass.adults cant take care of their own pets? why have them? they are using you and making a fool of you. i know you care about the animals so do something to have them removed and put in a persons home who would really love them.
MamaInNY·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (29 нед.)
also you are preggo, no matter how many weeks you are not supposed to be doing these kinds of jobs. bathing an animal is hard work and you arent even getting paid. or get them taken out by authorities or demand they pay you for your service. dont take bull from them. put your foot down.
missing405user·
@yahuahsdaughter, I've called places in colorado springs and they all say unless I have prof or one time of not feeding which they said I didn't know forsure if they did eat that day isn't enough for them to step in.. I've called about 5 places and they all say the same thing.. I'm not working so I'm leaving here for free and I don't have any where else to go right now so I feel like I have to help some how..
missing405user·
@yahuahsdaughter, it's horrible but I let it happen.. I refuse to clean up dog poop. I don't care if it's okay for me to do I refuse I'm not going to breath that in and sometime happen to my baby. my sister will spray the air freshener when she knows I'm not supposed to be around it. she's told me before she wishes I'll lose my baby because she lost her first one and she think I'm not grateful. I just need to get out of this house
MamaInNY·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (29 нед.)
Thats horrible. please get out of there as soon as possible. something like that is very serious and should not just be passed by like that. i understand now and i suspected that was the case, that you where living there for free..some people take this as an excuse to abuse and its not right. if i were you i would record the dogs food plate in secret if you can for the whole day as proof. also i would look into moving into a womens shelter. they provide you with a single room for you and your child complete with fridge and stove and your own bath. and after you have your baby they help you get work and daycare. its better to be independent than live with immature inconsiderate people who dont care for you and your childs health. now that you are still able to move about is the time to do it. i went through that for a while also living in a shelter , its not easy but sometimes you have to do what you gotta do and sacrifice for your childs wellbeing. imagine when you get huge and start getting the aches and pains dealing with the animald and their insensitive attitudes. it will get worse trust me..ive been there. run now while you can. i wish you luck.
MamaInNY·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (29 нед.)
dont let it happen. fight for your happiness and wellbeing.
missing405user·
@yahuahsdaughter, me and my husband live here with them because he's in the army and it's better to get married and have a place to live than me here and him on base, he pays for the food. so we aren't living for free free but we don't pay much. we're planning on using our income to get a place but I'm 18 and don't have credit and he has horrible credit because of a ex.. finding a place in colorado springs that's reasonable and close to base so we don't have to drive so far when the baby comes. from where we are now the hospital is almost a hour away plus we have to go through a gate to get in. I'm so scared I'm gonna have the baby in the car by the time we get to the hospital