he didn't want our toddler when I was pregnant either. but as soon as he saw her he fell in love. he's always been weird about pregnancy. he said no I don't want another baby but of coarse I will love it. I just think its best to give it up due to our financial issues but you have 4 months to find a job after that, we have issues.
@reba0719, our flight isn't until march first lol can't start until then. and I am aware. I'm a mother of 7. even if he pushes for adoption again I'm sticking with my babies. he knows that.
but he needs to realize these are our babies. both of them. they didn't ask to be made. the very least we can do is provide a safe and loving home where we don't choose one over the other or money over family. we can make it through anything if we try. he just has to realize play time is over. we are soon to be a family of four. not two teenagers anymore. we can't just think about ourselves and do what's convenient. we don't teach our toddler that its OK to give up and abandon one another in hardship.
Reba Menendez·
Мама сына (1 год)
@lakilucid, is your husband being more supportive now?
BANNED - lakin worley - hilliard·
Мама дочки (3 года)
I guess lol. he helps me take my pics. I think us booking our flight and hotel has helped him calm down.
BANNED - lakin worley - hilliard·
Мама дочки (3 года)
we have an agreement as well. I have four months to find a job to help or we have problems.
BANNED - lakin worley - hilliard·
Мама дочки (3 года)
he didn't want our toddler when I was pregnant either. but as soon as he saw her he fell in love. he's always been weird about pregnancy. he said no I don't want another baby but of coarse I will love it. I just think its best to give it up due to our financial issues but you have 4 months to find a job after that, we have issues.
Reba Menendez·
Мама сына (1 год)
@lakilucid I guess you better start that job hunt :) babies bring a lot of joy and love and thats something money can't buy!!
BANNED - lakin worley - hilliard·
Мама дочки (3 года)
@reba0719, our flight isn't until march first lol can't start until then. and I am aware. I'm a mother of 7. even if he pushes for adoption again I'm sticking with my babies. he knows that.
Reba Menendez·
Мама сына (1 год)
@lakilucid, He shouldnt be angry towards you, it takes two to make a baby!
BANNED - lakin worley - hilliard·
Мама дочки (3 года)
he isn't angry. he is worried sick and didn't want this to happen so soon.
BANNED - lakin worley - hilliard·
Мама дочки (3 года)
but he needs to realize these are our babies. both of them. they didn't ask to be made. the very least we can do is provide a safe and loving home where we don't choose one over the other or money over family. we can make it through anything if we try. he just has to realize play time is over. we are soon to be a family of four. not two teenagers anymore. we can't just think about ourselves and do what's convenient. we don't teach our toddler that its OK to give up and abandon one another in hardship.