So all the in-laws who bashed me are continuing to bash me because its all my fault the roads were…
So all the in-laws who bashed me are continuing to bash me because its all my fault the roads were slick and Dallas and I slid off the road. I'm being accused once again of killing everyone in my life from Dallas and my twins. It wasn't my fault number one, Dallas bumped his head and is healing just fine which he wasn't wearing his seat belt (I encourage him constantly to wear a seat belt) , and my twins are just fine. After fighting with them on the phone and all of them blocking me on social media so they could post and blame me for everything Dallas called all of his family and told them he will not be in contact with them until they can more civil. I feel terrible because he was upset. He cried... just wanting his family to stop accusing me and appreciate what I do. He had to tell his sister, grandmother , aunt, and a few others involved. All this over a post about video game music. It has escalated to the point where I was told to leave Dallas they will not approve of him marrying me. This is so beyond what it should be and I feel terrible for my fiance suffering through this. The only one on our side is his mom and his youngest sister.... sad. Just very very sad. I love Dallas with all my heart and we are having twins together but it seems like we cannot win between his family and I... I'm starting to wonder if its better to just leave and let him and his family be happy.
Stasja·
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If his family can't appreciate you, don't let it affect your relationship with your fiance. he will always hate them if you let them succeed and take away what he obviously loves most: you and your twins. Family isn't easy to deal with, but sometimes you have to say fuck you, ignore the haters and make your happiness. it's not easy! I'm going through similar things with my own family. message me if you ever need someone to talk to!
Rosalie·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (29 нед.)
what ever you do Don t let them come between y'all
lol try being engaged a son already a baby girl on the way and living with him and his family lol it's crazy and it hurts don't I repeat don't take there words into consideration...
my fiance has autism his mom my mother in law passed away I loved her like my own momma
she told me if I wasn't ment for this family I would not be here still lol and she was glad I was with her son because I chose to embrace him I didn't care about his autism...his ex left him because she couldn't deal with his family and because he had autism. now the mom isn't here family on their side is pretty bashing but I have never been the one to ever give up on the ones I love especially after my whole life of pretty much being given up on
so look at it this way as crazy as family is don't let him think ur gunna give up even if ur not idk how many times my fiance has said I was gunna leave him because of his family lol we've been together for a year and seven months just turn the other cheek ignore them and kill them with kindness
Mrs.RJ·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Don't leave. If he is there standing up for you then that means he cares for you even when it hurts and that says a lot. Y'all will get through it. You don't need his family you need him. If they fall in line cool if they don't cool. It's all about you alls family that is in the making now. I would be glad they blocked me caus now I wouldn't have to block them Lol. ✌🏽️
Abigail Myers·
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I'm trying so hard. I'm on bed rest and I'm stressed out now we're having twins I'm grateful but as a first time mom I'm scared. I just want Dallas to be happy. He has been standing up for me but its upsetting for the both of us. Dallas's family has pushed him over the edge a lot bashing him all the time by bashing me. They told him "why would you date a woman taller then you? your pictures will look weird" and they've been so harsh as to say "we should have never had you in our family in the first place" but then they turn around and say he's the most amazing thing, he's a great kid, on and on. His mother is pissed because she really does think I'm a good, sweet, girl. Before Dallas and I were together they both were homeless in the dead of winter. I begged my grandfather to let them stay with us and he did he bought them all new winter clothing and they stayed with us since that day Dallas and I have been in love and finally officially got engaged on July 4th. She's fed up with them too and has said some choice things to her own family too and I feel like the cause. I just want Dallas to be happy. He has grown so much and in a year or two he wants to go into the air force. I'm just hoping his family won't bring him down. @lovelymomma_16 @sexxymama83 @stasjafawn
Sindi·
Мама сына-младенца
don't let them get to you. you're marrying your fiancé not the family. when you guys get married it's you and the twins he'll come home to. he's providing for you three not them. I understand it hurts him to not have his family supporting him but I'm so glad that he stood up to them and told them to calm down. many guys wouldn't do that to avoid the drama. my MIL and I have always been on shaky ground and I never understood why. when I first moved in she was ok with it and happy but a week into she started drama with me. she complained to my husband about me even though to show gratitude I took over the household chores and cooking. but it was constant. everything I did for my husband she would laugh at me and tease me about it and undermine everything I did. if I did something For him it wasn't good enough and she would do it the exactly the same way I did but since it was her it was "perfect". my husband never not even once stood up for me and I'm miserable. hang in there. if you love him and he loves you (he showed you that when he told his family to buzz off) that's all that matters. keep moving forward. they aren't worth worrying about. be happy. you don't need that kind of people in your life
Hali·
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I know it's hard bc I let my babies father's family dictate if I married him and I didn't but at the end of the day you lay down with him not them so screw them
Janelle·
Мама сына (1 год)
You never let a persons family dictate your life let alone your relationship! If he he happy with you why do you feel bad ? Sometimes family doesn't want to see you happy even though they should want that ! His family is clearly very overbearing and controlling. If he is ok with cutting them off until they respect you then let him do that & you stop feeling bad because you didn't do a damn thing wrong . My family absolutely hates my husband . Because of the mistakes he made when we were dating . But that was 4 years ago . We're going on almost 2 years of marriage. If they can't let that shit go then I have to just worry about my husband , our son & our daughter on the way . I am an adult & I chose to marry this man . I honestly don't care what his family or mine think anymore . Shit his family isn't fond of me either . (Religious issues) so I choose to separate myself from the ones who don't care for me . He has no problem cutting off the ones who don't like or respect me, why because he chose to marry me & if he is happy he feels they should be happy for him and support his choices but they don't so he doesn't deal with them , that's his preference. Don't let anyone decide for you if you should marry him . You all are adults with children on the way . If y'all want to get married don't let a damn thing stop you . I promise you it will be the best thing you'll ever do . It's your life , live it how you want to . ! Stay positive
Amanda·
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You have the support of the person who brought him in the world his mom that's all you need the rest can go jump in a hole and leave you too alone