This is a TMI post: I have an issues where I think my vagina has shrunk after having my LO. Everytime that my husband and i try to have sex it hurts. Seriously hurts to the point where I am in tears. We have used lube and have done everything we could think of to make it enjoyable for me but I just cant do it because it hurts. I dont know what to do because I want to have sex with my husband. This is ridiculous.
@rosalinasmami, @mychellemabelle 7months & it still hurts?😳😳😳 oh lord! I'm not looking forward to it anymore! I'm barely a month pp & hubby is already talking about having a field day when we finally do lol 😕 he'll have to treat me like a virgin for some months I see 😩😣😂😂
Okay we will try it! Thanks for the advice @emmataylor
@mychellemabelle, oh honey! You're only 2 months pp! Give it time! I was worried when I couldn't at 6 weeks because that's when the doc said it was fine to try. And I couldn't. I know this is TMI too, but have him do some serious "play time" down there for about a week. Like let him finger you for a while each night for a week and I promise in like 3 days the sex will rock. 😘 #ExperienceTalking lol
Thats terrible. I'm only 2 months pp. I hope it toughens up lol. @rosalinasmami
@hottamalee hmm idk if it shrunk lol it's probably just still tender. I'm almost 7 months pp and it still hurts. mainly in the beginning. once we get going and the lube is working it's magic it gets better. at least you have your sex drive! mine went down😳 ugh
I dont know @hottamalee its very frustrating though!
Do y'all think I should have sex tommorow because that my ovluation day
Make your own breakfast!
At what age do you think a child should be making their own breakfast? I have a 10 year old and I think he is perfectly capable of making himself breakfast. It doesn't take rocket science to put some waffles into the toaster, or microwave some pancakes. My husband insists that he needs to have breakfast made for him because if we left it up to him he wouldn't eat enough and it would take him forever.
So Thursday is the day where my husband is getting his sperm checked out to see if we are able to have a baby i hope we can because its been almost two years and its been awhile since we had sex because i just be so down because we cant have a baby and it will be his first

Is anyone else seeing my faint positives? We had sex on the 23rd and I tested this morning because I have no chill and here we are.
Locking your doors
We are having a discussion on one of my birth boards from my older kids about locking doors and security alarms. There are many of us (me included) who do not lock our doors at home (I actually don't even have a deadbolt on my house and we don't lock it when we leave either), and others who think that's totally weird. So what do you do? Do you lock your doors? Do you think it's weird that people don't?
@hottamalee lol it gets better over time! like I said for me it's just when he first starts, but after,its all G! tell your husband no field day for a little while! lol Virgin mode on for sure 😂😂