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Alexandria J. Sheetz
Alexandria J. Sheetz
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I really need help on money saving . See my fiance is the absolute worst at saving money , and spending money right when…

I really need help on money saving . See my fiance is the absolute worst at saving money , and spending money right when he gets paid . when I am around him I make sure to put my foot down , and say no , and try so hard to make him not spend any money unless he absolutely has to . well here is the thing , he is not around me all the time . and this is just so stressful and aggregating and frustrating . I need to make sure we have money saved up , especially once Jayden gets here .. Please need tips on how to get my fiance to stop going so money crazy !!

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jaydenlee23

Alexandria J. SheetzМама сына (2 года)

@kaitlyn.edwards, yeah it would. just hope one day my fiance gets that also ..

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kaitlyn.edwards

kaitlyn.edwardsМама дочки-младенца, беременна (12 нед.)

I would definitely do it. having money put back before the baby comes is a life saver...

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jaydenlee23

Alexandria J. SheetzМама сына (2 года)

@kaitlyn.edwards, that is actually what i have been thinking of doing, even my fiance's mother asked me if he would let me hold on to it. because they all know I don't go crazy when I do shop . I make a list and have a budget and make sure it is things we absolutely need and make sure it is cheap. but my fiance just lets it burn away on pointless crap. and I can't be stressing over this. our baby boy is due in may of this year and time is ticking away and we do not even have a dime to our name because he went money crazy when I'm not around ..

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kaitlyn.edwards

kaitlyn.edwardsМама дочки-младенца, беременна (12 нед.)

I know this sounds wrong but my boyfriend used to take some of my money out of my wallet while I was asleep and putting it in the safe. So I wouldn't go spending it on baby things we didn't need lol

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