So I'm getting a little irritated with my baby daddies family. They want to go after him for child support when Ryland is born because doesn't care about this baby at all. Honestly though I would rather not even tell him when this babies born so I don't even have to deal with him at all. What do you ladies think I should do.
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Not being on the birth certificate means nothing. You need to file for sole custody the right way, thru a court, and have things established legally.
My told my daughters biological father that she was being born he came to visit after she was born and he wouldn't even sign he papers or even do the dna test at the hospital (he thinks she isn't his when I know she is). I've tried multiple times with him and he finally walked out of her life October 12th all because his new girlfriend.
idk I mean I'm already dealing with one stupid baby daddy cause with my 2 yr old. I'm just not sure if I wanna go through that again. @emily18234
I know but my thing is if not on the birth certificate. He has no rights. It's not like he cares. He's to worried about partying.
go after him. hell find out eventually then you'll be kicking yourself because he files for custody and you never got a dime
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
To sit and be helpless and watch my baby have a episode in my arms and I can't do nothing it kills me my eyes all watery. Why don't it just stop like my baby is so tiny and all I can do is hold him and pray over him...
if I say I do not want my baby daddy's mom up to visit the baby when the baby is born can I say I don't want her there?
will my baby daddy have a say if she can see him?
So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s planning a baby shower and she had one with her other two. I feel like a baby shower is something you do with ur first pregnancy. I live far from my family so I didn’t have one but i did have a baby registry and I’m not even doing that with this pregnancy. Idk I just feel like 3 baby showers is a lot! Especially when she gets things handed to her. Idk maybe I’m an ass for thinking that
Mother rant
I want to start off this rant with: I love my mom, she is amazing and has helped so much since ds was born and she will be an even bigger help when ds2 is born.
Not being on the birth certificate doesn't mean as much as people think.. He can still take you to court, get it proven that he's your baby's father and be on the BC.. Then you look bad. You don't have to tell him you're in labor if you don't want him there but definitely go after support. Your baby is entitled to that.