A chick that posts slutty pictures of herself on fb which shes friends with my boyfriends he claims…

oh I'd flip shit. your a more self controlled women then i. I state my boundries hard, and shut shit down before it becomes anything more.

ha I would let him know what's up, me or her, even tho my man calls every girl but me a slut (which is dumb) but he's just trying to make me feel better

@redheadmommyof2, @jessicahartze I don't want to come off controlling though but this has been a long time coming and since I've been pregnant I haven't felt as pretty as I probably should and yep this set me over the top. He usually gets all mad if I say something about her, which makes it even worse.

then definitely say something if he gets mad, that's not right. it isn't your fault you feel this way.

@jessicahartze, very true^^. Being defensive about it is off. its not controlling- your stating feelings and boundries.

@redheadmommyof2, @jessicahartze I asked his mom about her to see if what he says is true cause I don't trust this for a second...

if she was around before the relationship then id say u need to talk to her as well about boundaries and respecting the relationship if she wasent around before the relationship she doesnt need to be now

@analisa_ag, she was around before our relationship but she never makes a point to add me on fb to get to know me or invite me to dinner when she asks him so I instantly get curious

yeah well her being a females she should know how the feels and looks to you and you should talk to both if they keep making it seem hidden trust your gut feeling as hard as that is i was with my bf 3 years trusted him and one day i happened to look at his phone and he was tlaking to other people tore me apart but deep down i had already known u know?

My husband has many female friends. All of whom added me on Facebook and invite us to do things together. Out of respect they almost always talk to me first and try to engage me in conversation. I've never felt threatened or uncomfortable with any of them. If she's inviting him to do things that don't include you, that's a problem and it's very suspicious behavior. And you might want to use this pregnancy as back up and put your foot down. If you've never met her, she isn't important and severing contact with her shouldn't be a problem. You just need to tell him that you do not feel comfortable with this women being in contact with him any longer and if she was somebody who actually mattered he would've introduced her to you a long time ago. Since he never made it a point to do that you would like him to stop contact with her completely. And if he throws a fit then you just need to remind him that you and the baby are priority #1. Nobody else matters and this women is causing you stress which is bad for the baby.

@jana.bear, I added her on my fb, but I am going to have a talk with him about her and how I feel cause I don't like it and I don't like having extra unneeded stress. I want to be assured that while I'm at home with our baby he's not out with some hoe he calls a sister.

Sister my left foot...

@jana.bear, exactly how I feel. but I'm staying positive. the good thing is if he does get this job I know someone on every shift at gm that's in my family and they will tell me if he screws up.