@theosmommy, that sounds fun when I asked her what did she want to do she said a duck party lol we have a park near my house with a duck pond you can rent a pavilion and grill out oh and it's a playground there
You could make cookie dough and get her and her friends to decorate cookies before getting them into the oven, make it like a "cooking day".. and then serve the cookies with the food! I trust they will love to be a part of the preparation!