I know that this is very petty, but...my husband completely forgot about Valentine's day. It was our first one married...and while I don't care what he does or gets, even just a loving note or card would have been nice. I felt so hurt last night. His proposal was handing me a ring in the car and asking me to marry him (not his first marriage), when I told him I was finally pregnant I got almost no response (his third child). Is it really too much for me to want a little effort and romance from him? this is my first time for all of these things, and again I feel forgotten. ugh..
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I would talk to him. The other day I got myself all upset and crying cause my boyfriend seemed uninterested and not excited about having our baby. It's my first as well and his third. He had no idea I felt that way! He's like I am excited and really does care. He felt so horrible because I was so hurt by it. He apologized for seeming that way, and I know those weren't his intentions. So it helps to talk them. He's probably unaware he's making you feel like that.
My boyfriend and i's first child and when I told him I was pregnant for the first month and a half he told me to take it back he didn't want it
I have..its like he gets it for a week and then stops caring again. He works two jobs, and I know he is tired and stressed so I try not to let it get to me, it's just that he doesn't even try. My birthday is on Wednesday, hoping he remembers.
you gotta let him know.. sit him down and be like i know youve done all this before but i havent been there and i need it. especially now since youre pregnant.
I have talked to him. It just doesn't help. He apologises then goes right back to the same thing. I honestly am ready to just give up, and accept that I will never get the firsts I hoped for.