good choice lol I would've backed away slowly Lord only know what happened to him 😂@sarahdrew

my step dad asked my mom when their anniversary was, after about 20 years of marriage I looked at my mom and said "and I'm leaving the room"

Girl he better get it lol. must just be a man thing evry man I know can't remember bdays😂@sarahdrew

exactly.... I can tell him most of his nieces and nephews birthdays too lol he always said "it's June 26" Ummm that's 2 days early... he could remember his friends on the 28 of March but I guess the 28 of June was too much lol he has no choice now, I'm the 28 and our son is the 28 of September lol I will accept no excuses

😂😂 girl yes Joseph always says the 20th and I'm like whatever sure I'll be born a day early lol😩@sarahdrew men. then of course we remember theirs instantly

lol they just don't get it... it took my husband 2 years before he could remember my birthday lol

lol too funny girl, if I wasn't born this month I wouldn't pay attention to it but Joseph just has issues he doesn't even ask what day it is I keep reminding him my birthday is in 6 days hoping he gets that means the 28th is near.... no😒 of course not lol@sarahdrew

I totally hear you.... they don't think about it being the shortest month lol my husband is constantly asking me what day it is lol I'm sure he looks at a calendar at least once a day (he installs furnaces and air conditioners for a living and has to see what jobs there are each day)

Girl yes, like I taped all three bills to the tv so he'd see them 😒 he's like baby I got this and I'm like dude... February is the shortest month of the year.... you choose this month to be stupid. men I swear girl@sarahdrew

I agree with you, having fun is ok, and at least he stays home but if he's not paying bills something has to change..... you need a place to live and you need electricity especially being pregnant and once baby gets here

@sarahdrew,

I mean I'm all for having fun he is mature with it he doesn't act a fool he stays home and most of the time eats and sleeps but this electric bill is 150 and he hasn't paid any on top of 490 rent something is bound to get cut off.

I wish I had some words of wisdom, but I'm at a loss... I agree with you, it wouldn't be such a huge thing if he paid bills first....

I have and it kills me girl because he's a great man he just thinks weed should be legal and that's his problem If he could get everything done and do that I would be fine he works every day he just makes the wrong decisions and I can't work or I wouldn't care😧 but i have 2/3 back up plans for if something goes wrong@sarahdrew I just wish he would realize he's taking it to far

I have and it kills me girl because he's a great man he just thinks weed should be legal and that's his problem If he could get everything done and do that I would be fine he works every day he just makes the wrong decisions and I can't work or I wouldn't care😧 but i have 2/3 back up plans for if something goes wrong@sarahdrew I just wish he would realize he's taking it to far

I haven't had to deal with this situation, but I will say you have to watch out for you and baby first... if he wants to be dumb then let him be dumb.... I would make sure all your ducks are in a row in the mean time in case something happens . . I will be praying that he gets his shit straight for you and that little girl

I love him to death and this is a new thing for him but I tell him like I tell everyone else, it's just a little different that she may be your daughter to but I'll be damned if i get my child taken away behind him doing stupid things. Alabamas DHR has major issues and there are always petty people that will tell. I told him let a piss test come back + for thc and imma tell them look i didn't know and blame him bc I told him to stop 😩 I just don't know how to handle this@sarahdrew

I'm sorry you're going thru this mama... some guys just don't think about things like that