Do you really think the way you are raised

Has no impact on when and how you decide to have sex? I read a comment on another thread that really rubbed me the wrong way. Something about how teens have sex and there's just no stopping it no matter how you raise them.

When You Tell Somebody Your Pregnant And They Tell You That You Don't Need Any More Kids First Of All You Don't Take Care Of Any Of My Kids And And I Have Never Asked You For A Dollar So Until You Do Something For My Kids Don't Tell Me What I Need To Be Doing Period Because I Take Care Of Them I Put Food In Their Mouth I Put Clothes On Their Back I Stay Up All Night When They Are Sick Man People Really Get Under My Skin Trying To Tell You What You Do And Don't Need Like Get Fr And Then Say You G...

How do you politely tell people you don't want visitors from out of state after your child is born?

Locking your doors

We are having a discussion on one of my birth boards from my older kids about locking doors and security alarms. There are many of us (me included) who do not lock our doors at home (I actually don't even have a deadbolt on my house and we don't lock it when we leave either), and others who think that's totally weird. So what do you do? Do you lock your doors? Do you think it's weird that people don't?

I love how sanctimommies feel the need to call me out on fb because I am all for spanking a child when they are doing something dangerous. Like you think I care? I'll raise my kids how I see fit, keep my name off your keyboard. They act like them calling me out is going to change how I parent. Like I dont know you, don't care what you think of me, and damn sure don't care that I hurt your feelings. 🤷🏽