@bakingbabylovett, ooh I know I just have two little faces that look up to me and the decision that has to be made and that's the unfair part

@ash1107, Girl you have a lot to think about, I would treat him and think about him differently, he left! When you needed him to be there, bed rest with little kids, come on now. He made a stupid decision and now has to deal with it. Ugh men!

@bakingbabylovett, but yet when I felt overwhelmed and took a single night to myself it's wasn't okay and that cause I had my two sons with me but he can do this and now I just found out he told his best friend "that he hope she doesn't treat me different "wth does that mean?

@ash1107, See Im not with that, if my husband did that, I would definitely consider divorce. But maybe talk to see why he left, maybe he got scared, overwhelmed, still doesn't make it right though.

@bakingbabylovett, exactly I needed him the most and he was no where to be found and that to me hurt the most IDK what he was doing who he was with nothing absolutely nothing he would talk to his mom and sister to tell me to get his daughter from school and more work clothes really that cowardly I just ughhhhhh

@ash1107, Wth! Hell no, I would be fucking pissed too. You need him the most right now and he decides he needs space, divorce would be on my mind also.

@bakingbabylovett, Thank you for the advice and I do love him but he said and did things that showed he doesn't feel the same who leaves there 8 month bedrest pregnant wife cause he needs space and leaves me with his daughter.

I've been there plenty of times, you're not wrong for being mad, hell I wouldn't want to see my husband neither. I'm not sure what you guys are fighting about but if you're that unhappy definitely talk about a divorce, BUT there's no taking back, so think real long and hard about. If you guys feel like things can change if the both of yous work on it, then don't give up, there's a reason why you guys married each other, find it. I've been married 6yrs & girl it was so hard, we gave up so many times but didn't go through with a divorce. It was a long ass road that I wouldn't recommend, it gets dark, depressing and just plain tiring. But we both knew there was love still there and fought through that demon. Things are getting better, but it was a long process. Point is: communication, being on the same page and working together is the key. I could go on forever but I hope things get better. Also don't stay if you're truly unhappy it won't get better.