so... I'm 17 weeks and the hubby still hasn't told his family. well...I'm supposed to go to a bridal…

tell them before. it's not fair to the bride. even if he doesbt, you need to

Wow, what is he waiting for!?! I would say something to the bride and see how she feels about it. Me personally I wouldn't think that would spoil anything for her, it'll just be more exciting, it's not like your walking in with the baby.

he said he's waiting until we're way out of the first trimester because we've lost 2 babies in the first trimester.

then don't tell anyone. if they notice calmly tell them you are waiting to reveal. we waited until 14 weeks as I have had five losses. the latest at 14 weeks. some family got mad we didn't tell them but once I explained they understood. hubby still hasn't told his family but they aren't close. the bride shouldn't get jealous of you being pregnant. that's petty.

if she does get jealous that shows her true colors and you don't need that negativity in your life.

You are already out of the first trimester. Second trimester started at 14 weeks.