Ugh, my SO has the nerve! He doesn't know what it's like to never get sleep and when I do, its wake…

I hear you there 💯

@mamamj, its so frustrating he wants to do things his way and not listen to me when I say to leave her alone even if she's cooing her attention. he is spoiling her and she's always gonna do that then.

I hear ya sister, just know that it is developmentally impossible for babies that young to be "spoiled" by attention...I know you probably got a lot of people telling you otherwise, but honestly they've done a lot of research on this subject recently and babies don't develop habits like that when they're that young, you can give all the love and attention you want and they won't be spoiled! You can only spoil a child with material objects! That being said, I agree if it's nighttime and baby is supposed to be sleeping, he should let her coo and try to put herself to sleep, if she starts crying yes, pick her up and help her, but if she's not upset it's perfectly safe to let her be and see if she'll fall back asleep without the help 😊 and since you're the one that's with her all day and night all the time, he should listen when you tell him she's fine, because you know her sounds and when she's upset and when she's fine!

@hellosweetie, very true. I did find it hard to not give her attention when she's cooing and cawing hehe :( thank you! on the bright side.. I'm going home today and sleeping there for the night 😍😍

That's so cool! Lil vacay again 😉 cherish those moments girl, I wish I could spend time with my mama like that 😔