I'm married for almost 2 years now for all the special holidays that past like b.day/wedding anniversary/xmas/and today valentines day I never ever ask any gift to my hubby but he just really sweet of making an effort to do something special like sneaking by wrapping his gift for me all the time to surprise me. we're not used to go out and having a dinner date coz I refuse I always suggest to spend our time in the kitchen and help each other to prepare a special meal.,sometimes we fail and we just laugh to each other and decide to order pizza lol😄😁 for me everyday having my husband is a blessing and I thankful to god to have this man in my life💖💗💘💞 Yes marriage life is not easy there is always ups and down but that's the way it is,we just need not to forget that there is no perfect in this world.be contented of what you have and never ever compare your partner to anyone that you think they're better than your partner coz that is just disrespectful,always appreciate your partner of everything that his doing HAPPY VALENTINES TO ALL.