I had a miscarriage a couple months before this pregnancy...going through a basket full of random papers, and ran into the baby's ultrasound picture and burst into tears..I didn't realize how close my due date with that baby is(my first pregnancy) but now I feel guilty crying over that, since I have been blessed with another miracle...should I feel guilty? I love my little guy so much already...maybe just my hormones?? idk.... :/

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tiffmama
Tiffany·В ожидании первенца

I would just let the tears flow! I would of just had my baby. February 6th was my due date! I'm now due May 14th, and I can't help but feel this weird empty gut feeling just thinking about how I'm coming close to my due date, but I also would of already had a baby here with me if I hadn't miscarried.

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sealion
Shaynia·В ожидании первенца

I'm due the same week I miscarried with my last pregnancy. Literally one year ago. I became pregnant three months after my miscarriage. I still feel heartbroken when looking at the ultrasounds. But you wouldn't have this blessing if you wouldn't have lost the last blessing. I know it's cliche but it happened to be part of the plan some how. In my case I was with the wrong guy. I was on birth control and still became pregnant. He left me immediately. My best friend and me just kind of clicked in the mix and boom. I hadn't gotten back on birth control because the dr's think it's why I miscarried. Here is my blessing only a month out of arriving. I would possibly still be in the same toxic relationship.. My road was rocky but brought me to where I needed to be. I still mourn but it was the plan. ❤️

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becca11jane

Thank you. I just don't want this new miracle to "think" they aren't as important because he is my whole world. it just upset me to think that I would be 36 weeks with the first one right now.

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maybaby2016
Jackee·Многодетная мама (5 детей), беременна

you are allowed to feel however you need to in order to cope and heal. I would say that you don't need to feel guilty because none of it was your fault and even though you have a new blessing it doesn't mean the last one wasn't just as special.

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