I had a miscarriage a couple months before this pregnancy...going through a basket full of random papers, and ran into the baby's ultrasound picture and burst into tears..I didn't realize how close my due date with that baby is(my first pregnancy) but now I feel guilty crying over that, since I have been blessed with another miracle...should I feel guilty? I love my little guy so much already...maybe just my hormones?? idk.... :/
I'm due the same week I miscarried with my last pregnancy. Literally one year ago. I became pregnant three months after my miscarriage. I still feel heartbroken when looking at the ultrasounds. But you wouldn't have this blessing if you wouldn't have lost the last blessing. I know it's cliche but it happened to be part of the plan some how. In my case I was with the wrong guy. I was on birth control and still became pregnant. He left me immediately. My best friend and me just kind of clicked in the mix and boom. I hadn't gotten back on birth control because the dr's think it's why I miscarried. Here is my blessing only a month out of arriving. I would possibly still be in the same toxic relationship.. My road was rocky but brought me to where I needed to be. I still mourn but it was the plan. ❤️
Thank you. I just don't want this new miracle to "think" they aren't as important because he is my whole world. it just upset me to think that I would be 36 weeks with the first one right now.
you are allowed to feel however you need to in order to cope and heal. I would say that you don't need to feel guilty because none of it was your fault and even though you have a new blessing it doesn't mean the last one wasn't just as special.
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
Feeling guilty
Any other second time moms feeling guilty about their pregnancy? It makes me sad to think that in a few months my son won't be an only child anymore. He'll get less attention, and probably be jealous of the new baby. I don't want him to think he's being replaced :(
SAHM do you feel guilty -I do ?
Do you ever feel guilty that your so/dh go out work hard and you get to stay home?
My mom's trying to convince me to let her into the delivery room with us, but I honestly just want it to be my boyfriend and I. And it doesn't even have anything to do with how shitty my mom has been this entire pregnancy, I just feel that this is our child, I want it to be just something that we experience. Plus, I feel it'll be a lot less stressful if only my boyfriend is there. But my god, she's trying to make me feel guilty and I'm about to snap 🙄
Really hating today as I get further along in my pregnancy the more angry I get. I have become very resentful of some of my husband's chocies. Anyone else feel this way?
I would just let the tears flow! I would of just had my baby. February 6th was my due date! I'm now due May 14th, and I can't help but feel this weird empty gut feeling just thinking about how I'm coming close to my due date, but I also would of already had a baby here with me if I hadn't miscarried.