My boyfriend won't do a single thing to help me out. I ask for a back rub, I get a no. I ask for sex, of course, no. Nothing. He doesn't like touching me. He tells me I'm gross all the time. Makes me feel like shit 24/7...Like all I want is for him to appreciate me and show me he loves me. No, I really don't care about sex that much, but what I do ask I don't expect to get an "ew no" response...😢
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Ugh, no. ... your beautiful and can do soooooo much better! don't be scared to go for what you deserve! took me 10 years to leave my ex, I was scared, no family support, 3 kids, how can anyone raise 3 kids go to school and work full time? There is no explanation as to how, only know if you have the courage to go for things and knowledge to know your self worth and that you and your daughter deserve better; youll find your stronger than you ever thought possible my dear. I know because I was you once.
so I was stalking your posts and I just wanted to say you are so gorgeous! and I'm sorry your boyfriend is treating you the way he is, he has no right treating the woman who is carrying his child that way you're beautiful! And most definitely NOT disgusting I would try talking to him?
What a douche bag!! You don't deserve that sweetie you and you daughter should be his top priority and concern
oh no Hun, you deserve way better than that. A guy like that don't deserve to be in your life. what a dick
He doesn't really care about anything unless it truly matters...His video games are his main priority right now. Not me or his daughter, video games.../: he says sex with a pregnant chick is gross. He hates seeing me naked...he's just an overall douche I swear.
I would talk to him and let him know how you feel. But he shouldn't be being so nasty to you! And what guy passes up sex with their gf?!
I definitely would not put up with that. ..
@maddiesmommy22, I'll try to talk to him when I can. Currently, he's playing a video game and ignoring anything I have said to him. I think I need to just get it done and over with and find someone that'll love me the way I am. And my daughter of course. Just wish things would work out between him and considering the fact that I truly do love him...
that decision is completely up to you sweetie, I know it's not easy to leave someone you really love & care about. especially when there's a child involved. so talk to him, lay it on the table. give him an ultimatum, it's either it gets better or he's done.
@maddiesmommy22, You're definitely right. I should just kick him to the curb.
he should be making you feel beautiful, no matter how you look or feel even if he doesn't mean it. you definitely don't need someone like that in your life.
@desiadi4116, Exactly. When I was skinny and "attractive", he had no problem with having sex with me. But the moment I started getting bigger in the pregnancy, I was no longer "attractive" to him...Just hurts a bit.
We tried breaking up before, but then I went back because I missed him. And like I want to leave him again, but I can't bring myself to do it because I do love him. He's just a dick sometimes. He's the type to point out every single flaw someone has...Well, that's all he does to me. I'm almost 9 months pregnant and he just likes to tell me I'm unattractive, fat, gross...Basically all the hurtful things that he could possibly say...
That's not cool but let me guess it was all okay to have sex until you got pregnant and you weren't gross then? sorry that he's doing that to you
well if he can't appreciate you at the best & most important time in your life then that's not somebody you need in your life sweetie.
that's shitty of him he shouldn't make you feel bad about it.. I get turned down for sex all the time but he shouldnt call you gross!
@Mrs.snelling, Thank you. I did talk to him, and he felt like a jackass for what he said/did. He's taking me out for dinner tonight, he also gave me a back massage and belly rub. I don't exactly forgive him for the things he said, but it's a start. I'm not really worried about the whole sex thing, just more of what he said about me. I have low self esteem as it is, and he just kinda made it worse, but he's trying to make up for it.