Ladies I have a question... Joseph's brother's wife invited me to her baby shower but we aren't close and I really don…

@hermommy, well whatever decision you make I'm sure it'll be the right one for you and your family. :) and that's all that matters.

it breaks my heart bc she's carrying Joseph's nephew but at the same time I'm carrying his daughter idk I just don't want to make the wrong decision😢@nicemmcha2015 ni

@hermommy, you're right. it's not the babies fault at all. I wish there was a cut and dry right and wrong answer but there is pros and cons on both sides about it.

thank you girl that helps alot, the mommy in me is saying hell no, will y'all be involved but the good hearted person in me is saying it's not that baby's fault😢😢😢@nicemmcha2015

@nicemmcha2015, I've been in that situation to an extent. my husband's mothers bfs daughter threatened to stab me in the stomach and kill my daughter when I was about 6 months with her. it's a hard situation doll. best thing I can tell you is let the mama in you decide. since he said that. . I honestly don't see why they'd expect you to really go? that's terrible. you could press charges if you had proof (like texts) of him saying that. do what's best for you and that sweet baby honey.

don't go them you don't feel obligated to invite her @hermommy

I wouldn't even worry about it because they can't get mad at yall because of someone elses decisions

@nathansmommy2, nath

that's what I'm saying like I'm not used to that, Joseph would kill him if he ever even tried to touch me but it's the fact Johnathon was upset bc we were expecting at the same time as them he's mad bc their grandma is happy for us they're on their 3rd and don't take care of them that's why no one is happy for them they use the kids as checks@natha

Now that's not even called for.. And his family can't get mad because of the choices yall made or make it's not up to them to keep Brin safe it's yours and if yall are uncomfortable with doing something then they can get mad at you or Joseph @hermommy

I just like idk things like this cause huge issues with Joseph's family, when we didn't tell them we were expecting which we didn't have to and Joseph decided he wasn't comfortable doing so they pitched a fit and that wa' he first time Johnathon said "he would beat my ass at my ob appointment till I lose that baby"@nathansmommy2

But she doesn't have to come to yours but I wouldn't eat or drink nothing if you go to hers especially of she threatned to kill u and brin

or over slept @hermommy

Oh hell no then just act like you forgot 😂😂😂

I don't want them there either lol no way in he'll I'm throwing one just for her to come to@nathansmommy2 these are the people that threatened tot kill brin and I

but it's not until April with Joseph's family little things like this cause huge blow ups but her husbamd threatened to kill my daughter and I so I'm very uncomfortable doing anything for them or their kids@nicemmcha2015 I'm so confused😢

Have a 3rd baby shower that's what would do there's nothing wrong with more than one or. two babyshowers

just because you go to their doesn't mean they have to come to yours. and if you don't want to go then don't go. tell them you had plans already.