Ladies I have a question... Joseph's brother's wife invited me to her baby shower but we aren't close and I really don feel comfortable going bc of certain reasons. But I feel like when she asked me to come she was waiting for me to invite her to my two baby showers but I can't both host said that Jennifer nor Johnathon are allowed at their houses.What do I do about these situations😩
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it breaks my heart bc she's carrying Joseph's nephew but at the same time I'm carrying his daughter idk I just don't want to make the wrong decision😢@nicemmcha2015 ni
@hermommy, you're right. it's not the babies fault at all. I wish there was a cut and dry right and wrong answer but there is pros and cons on both sides about it.
thank you girl that helps alot, the mommy in me is saying hell no, will y'all be involved but the good hearted person in me is saying it's not that baby's fault😢😢😢@nicemmcha2015
@nicemmcha2015, I've been in that situation to an extent. my husband's mothers bfs daughter threatened to stab me in the stomach and kill my daughter when I was about 6 months with her. it's a hard situation doll. best thing I can tell you is let the mama in you decide. since he said that. . I honestly don't see why they'd expect you to really go? that's terrible. you could press charges if you had proof (like texts) of him saying that. do what's best for you and that sweet baby honey.
I wouldn't even worry about it because they can't get mad at yall because of someone elses decisions
that's what I'm saying like I'm not used to that, Joseph would kill him if he ever even tried to touch me but it's the fact Johnathon was upset bc we were expecting at the same time as them he's mad bc their grandma is happy for us they're on their 3rd and don't take care of them that's why no one is happy for them they use the kids as checks@natha
Now that's not even called for.. And his family can't get mad because of the choices yall made or make it's not up to them to keep Brin safe it's yours and if yall are uncomfortable with doing something then they can get mad at you or Joseph @hermommy
I just like idk things like this cause huge issues with Joseph's family, when we didn't tell them we were expecting which we didn't have to and Joseph decided he wasn't comfortable doing so they pitched a fit and that wa' he first time Johnathon said "he would beat my ass at my ob appointment till I lose that baby"@nathansmommy2
But she doesn't have to come to yours but I wouldn't eat or drink nothing if you go to hers especially of she threatned to kill u and brin
Oh hell no then just act like you forgot 😂😂😂
I don't want them there either lol no way in he'll I'm throwing one just for her to come to@nathansmommy2 these are the people that threatened tot kill brin and I
but it's not until April with Joseph's family little things like this cause huge blow ups but her husbamd threatened to kill my daughter and I so I'm very uncomfortable doing anything for them or their kids@nicemmcha2015 I'm so confused😢
Have a 3rd baby shower that's what would do there's nothing wrong with more than one or. two babyshowers
just because you go to their doesn't mean they have to come to yours. and if you don't want to go then don't go. tell them you had plans already.
So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s planning a baby shower and she had one with her other two. I feel like a baby shower is something you do with ur first pregnancy. I live far from my family so I didn’t have one but i did have a baby registry and I’m not even doing that with this pregnancy. Idk I just feel like 3 baby showers is a lot! Especially when she gets things handed to her. Idk maybe I’m an ass for thinking that
What would you do? - baby shower
SO my mom has been very negative about the baby my entire pregnancy. Especially in the beginning, she said the most HORRIBLE things about me, my DH and my unborn baby. Like that I was making a big mistake, that I was making her 2015 the worst year ever... etc etc. Even when she would do nice things she made me feel like I was a HUGE inconvenience and a burden to her. She told me to definitely NOT expect a shower or anything like that from her. Fine, whatever...
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I just absolutely love some women on here! Some woman wants to write on another women's post telling her she shouldn't be having sex at all in the beginning of pregnancy. I didn't know she was her doctor. Then she wants to tell me that the first trimester is only 1-9 weeks pregnant. And she lost her baby at 4 weeks pregnant due to sex. Like sweetie that's your period starting!
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
@hermommy, well whatever decision you make I'm sure it'll be the right one for you and your family. :) and that's all that matters.