My uncle that I never talk to and only really spend time with occasionally when I traveled when I was little wrote on my Facebook wall last night and was like "hi how are you feeling" and I told him I was having a rough day but over all I'm amazing and he responds about how thats good and then says "I can't say I'm happy about this..." talking about me having a baby.
what the hell. all this negativity. I thought i had gotten away from it by now.
it's always the people that will never see your kid and know nothing about you anymore that have the most shit to say.. @stasjafawn
I had my aunt, who was nasty to me as a child and rude lately, tell me to get an abortion not long after I found out I was pregnant. she lives in Florida, I'm in pa. smh. I know the feeling. we just gotta focus on the fact that it's our child and they have no say
I don't blame you... I'm pretty close. I don't need anyone and I'm an adult. I work full time and don't ask anyone for anything. my man and I have our own place like I bet my uncle knows nothing about what I've been doing. babies are more than a blessing. you are so right.
That's why I cut out my family. I refuse to expose my child to a glimpse of negativity. she is a blessing no matter what other people day
YOU HAVE NO REASON NOT TO BE HAPPY ABOUT THIS. WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Woke up outta my sleep in crazy pain and to my 4 year old all under me and to my husband saying is Loyal here yet I'm getting nervous cause that man have always been head on to when his kids coming out an playing the game and guess what that's what's going on now I'm ready for baby boy but then again I am not. My 4 year old is literally walking every where I walk talking about I'ma stay with you mama even when I go to the br I'm starting to feel sick to my stomach......
Doc says I'm still 2cms and I'm about 60-70% softened but baby hasn't dropped completely and I just wanna cry like if she hasn't dropped all the way then why does my pelvics feel like this somebody help how do I get this baby to drop more 😞🤦🏽♀️
@naturalmama yupp!