I made a point not to ask for all the pregnancy favors during my early pregnancy because I knew I would need them a lot…

I made a point not to ask for all the pregnancy favors during my early pregnancy because I knew I would need them a lot later, but now my plan backfired cuz my husband thinks I don't need anything. I'm freaking nine months pregnant, my back hurts, my feel are swollen, I'm tired and hungry all the time, and all I want is a massage and cuddle time. Instead he's getting me to do the laundry and make dinner and he even asked if it was possible that I could climb on top of the counter to get something! I know he doesn't mean anything by it, but does he even remember I'm pregnant at all?! He's so proud to brag about me and the baby to his friends, but I can barely get him to listen to me when I warn him about the labor and delivery details when we are at home. It's just getting very frustrating, and now my hormones are making it even harder to deal with. I don't think he even really knows what I'll need in the delivery room since he can't figure out what I need beforehand. He says to ask him for stuff but when I do he never does it. The few times he has I've been surprised because I just don't even expect it anymore. Ugh!!!

(Sorry for the rant; I just needed to vent)