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Alena
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Hello ladies. I was thinking a lot about my first appointment... The thing is my doc noticed retrochorionic haemorrhage…

Hello ladies. I was thinking a lot about my first appointment... The thing is my doc noticed retrochorionic haemorrhage near the uterus. From what I know it's a pretty common thing and it's not that huge. But I live in Russia and doctors here have a very strict policy on pregnancies. They don't consider any miscarriage normal, even the first one and they fight like crazies to save the pregnancy right from the start. Even though it's not actually proven to be possible, from what I know... I read a lot of researches.

Well, I had to make a choice:

1. To listen to the doctor and to drink a lot of pills including hormone (dydrogesterone), which I don't like and I still breastfeed so I don't won't my son to get this with milk.

2. To drink only anti-haemorrhage pills and wait till this thing disappears.

I decided to wait. I have no idea how hormones can help, but if I see no improvement, I will consider this option again. I just hate it that doctors here prescribe it like it's lollipops and fits everyone 😔 And more than that - they consider us some kind of hormonal creeps... I just don't feel like a creep, why putting me in a wheelchair?

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mariiaglad

Мария

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Pills to drink how to tell the doctor! In Russia its a way to save the pregnancy.

mariiaglad

Мария

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

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