Ok I need some advice or something ... Lol... Me and my fiancé both have children from our previous marriage. He has two daughters 10 and 3. I have one daughter 11. And our one in the oven I pray to be a boy. So his 10 yr hated me at first but now loves me and the 3yr loved me and now hates me. Which I understand at first you may feel something as a child and then it change ... Hell that's even as adults ... But his youngest doesn't like me now because I have had to step up and hold my ground. When I correct her I tell her stop being bad. It obviously has offended her ( a 3yr old) to the point that she told her mom "I don't like her she calls me bad". And I would understand if I yelled it or was mean but most of the time I'm laughing. This is not my child but I feel like this .... She's screaming at me to get what she wants ... You know the kids that everybody is looking at in the grocery store that's acting crazy and your all like if that was my kid I'd beat the crap out of her .... Well this is his precious Izzy. So today I tell her no and get put the kitchen being bad .... She picked up a broom and threw it at me and started running threw the house picking stuff up throwing it. If I did that as a child I would be in a wheelchair.... I'm alone with her and he sister and their dad is going threw a serious custody battle with the ex and I feel helpless but I'm sick of being disrespected.
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with my step daughter I had to record her showing her butt so that her mom and dad could actually see how she was behaving and ever since then my husband had a serious talk with her and she at times still gets this attitude but as soon as I give her a look or tell her enough she has claimed down. every situation is different though and it's hard to be the step parent and discipline the way you do your own children and I feel bad when my boy act out and I'm over there putting them in time out and disciplining them my way it's a hard place to be at at times
I'd put her in a room with nothing but a bed take all toys and if that don't help tell her dad and tell him he needs to explain that she has to listen or there will be consequences enforced by him
I finally just let her go cause I couldn't handle the screaming I almost had to light a cigarette
I put her in our room cause the other kids where playing in the room and I sat her on the bed and she threw herself off the bed on the floor
that and if I put her in time out (corner) I would have to stand behind her with her nose to the wall so she knew she had to stay there. I don't let her out for 5 minutes (she can't cry the entire time)
put her in time out if she doesn't listen I would tell her dad he needs to talk to her and make her understand she has to redirect you somebody needs to discipline her
what I had to do with my daughter was take all of her toys and throw them in trash bags. she could only get one or two back if she was good the entire day.
Needs counseling and prayer