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Julianna
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What is wrong with me... I feel so jealous of my significant other.. I've never had that problem…

What is wrong with me... I feel so jealous of my significant other.. I've never had that problem before and this is the first time it happens throughout my pregnancy but I feel like crying sooo bad.. I feel like crap. Please tell me this is normal... We barely have sex anymore (we can't) I began spotting last time we did and doctor advised me to stay away. I know he feels bad because we use to have sex everyday and he's crazy about it but idk, I don't feel that love that I use to feel anymore.. I just want to cry all day today :( feeling so emotional.

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tahtahme

Tahtahme

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Youre jealous he can still have sex? Or that he still loves you? I'm confused.

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juliannap

Julianna

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No I'm jealous over a different reason. I'm so out of it lol I thought I had reposted it.

We never go out without each other-- last night we got invited to a private concert but being that im 30 weeks pregnant and catching a cold, I know I shouldn't have gone because I had to be up the next morning (this morning) at 5 AM for work and getting home at 4 to just sleep one hour would not do me any good so I decided to stay home. It was the first time he's gone out without me and it was suppossed to be a double date so it was just him, our friend and his date. I feel so left out... I feel so jealous of him being there it's hurting me so bad and I can't stand that I feel like this :/ @tahtahme

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tahtahme

Tahtahme

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Awe...did you consider asking him to not go? I know what you mean, my husband and I do EVERYTHING together, that would have made me super upset as well 😕 Not cuz I don't trust him, but because things are changing with the baby, but it feels like I have to change a ton before he does...

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tahtahme

Tahtahme

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You made a good choice staying home for you and the baby, btw

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juliannap

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It's a long story but he pretty much had to go. It was a friend who did my whole babyshower for free since he owns a party company and he liked a girl from my babyshower who is friends with my husband and I. He wanted us to set him up on a date.. So we had to go Bc she had no idea that the guy (party planner) was going. So we had to be there but I knew that I just couldn't go. If I wasn't pregnant, idc I would've gone and came straight to work Bc I can handle that but I can't be greedy and just think about myself.. I've been so tired lately and knew that I just needed to rest. So I really couldn't ask him not to go, that would've been selfish of me. It's just different when you're pregnant.. I never believed anyone but As close as we've gotten throughout my pregnancy,.. Sometimes things just aren't the same. We can't have sex and he's such a sex maniac.. And I'm always uncomfortable now. Ugh hate to complain so much but I feel really down today :/ @tahtahme

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tahtahme

Tahtahme

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You should just relax...some things are not going to go right during pregnancy. We used to have sex every day, and for a while it just hurt to much and I want into it. Pregnancy is uncomfortable, you can't keep doing the old thing during this time! Your whole relationship is changing, and that's ok that's a good thing...youre elevating to a different stage of being with each other. I think youre letting the hormones get to you and being sad about things not going the way you are used to, but this is good practice for when the baby comes 😊

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