@tomoiee95, Yeah you're right I should really start looking into some and carefully read reviews on places. @aniyahsmommy_0623 i know it can be tough. I love my job too. I would really hate to leave it and i really don't want to rely on anyone else for money. @rylansmomma awe man what a jerk! hopefully once he meets Rylan he would have a different attitude.

I just decided today I'd just take maternity leave. not sure what part of Louisiana you're on but its so hard to find a good job around my area & Im blessed enough to have a very very good job & luckily the daycare behind my job is a very good daycare. just think about your little one.

I had to make that decision too. I decided to keep working. For one my boyfriend is not my husband and I'm not relying on him or digging into my savings. If me and my baby needs something I want to be able to get it. My job will give me enough time to get a little adjusted to my child on my time off but I have to look into a good daycare when I go back. Nows the time to start looking into one so you can build trust and get all the information you need.

I'm in the same boat. My dad refers to Rylan as "that kid" and says "you won't ever dump it off on me" so that's not happening, so I'll have to trust a daycare just keep a close watch on how they give him back to me.