thank you same to you @jyl14

@carlitojrmami, if he loves his job then you gotta support him I guess. but there is time you can't take it no more then you can talk about it you know :) I wish the best for you guys!!

no I don't know talk to him about it at all because I know he loves his job so I'm not going to rush him to get out @jyl14

@carlitojrmami, sooner is better if you guys have a plan. it seems you stay longer hard to get out. We were planing to stay in but just can't do this no more. did you ever talk to him about it? like is he wanna get out or stay? how do you feel about it?

@jyl14,

my husband has been in for four years will be 5 soon but we will be a year married the 13th and we been together for a year already . idk when my husband wants to get out

@carlitojrmami, oh I know how you feel. my husband got deployed twice. I've been dealing with this bull for 7 years. I'm so done. I just can't do this no more. I always say there is no military without family supports. but they never appreciate us. we are done. getting out this year.

I feel you . I'm a marine wife . my hubby is deployed for 7 months