Is it bad that I'm mad about my OB not wanting to see if I'm dilated at 35 weeks?!
He said he won't check any patients until they're 38 weeks!
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
My doctor said he would induce my labor at 38 weeks, if my baby girl still had growth issues and if the percentile dropped to 10 or less. Last thursday, it was 10 percentile, and he said if she didn't come on her own by 38 weeks, he would induce labor at that time. I'm 36 weeks 1 day today, he said my cervix was super thin, and 1cm dilated. Is there a possibility this can change... that my doctor will let her just come on her own? I don't want to be induced, i would much rather her come on her own when she is ready to come ! As much as I am anxious to meet her and have her home with me, those last few weeks of brain development and lung maturation means so much more to me! I'm hoping and praying that things turn around, and I don't have to get induced. I'm surely going to talk to my doctor about it Thursday when I go back.
so I'm being induced so he will be here next week. he's measuring smaller . I'm 37 weeks but he's measuring 35 weeks . 😔 I'm not ready for him yet . he doesn't even have his bed yet. so that means he's going to be a preemie , I hope he doesn't stay in the nicu. on top of all that went on today smh. you know he had the nerve to call me a failure ? pssh.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
This is my little angel-nephew Tristen. He ascended Saturday morning. (It's too hard to say he "died"...I'm not ready.) This week has been a VERY hard week and it's only Wednesday. 😢
Christina Abbott·
Мама подростка
The problem with checking early from ehat i have read and been told is it leaves you open for infection which can be vety harmful. Is there a underlying reason that would make you believe that you are dialated for any reason? 35 weeks is a lil early.
momma·
lol I had my Dr check at 36 weeks. I know it doesn't mean anything because my last pregnancy I was 2 cm dilated 70% effaced for a whole month before I was induced. lol its fun to hear you're dilated BUT you can also close back up too. sorry you weren't checked!
Kristen Beltran·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (39 нед.)
My doctor doesn't check until 39 weeks unless you feel some contractions. She said their is no point if you are not feeling anything plus it could cause infection to be checking.
Jessica·
Lol I'll be lucky if I can keep my Dr from checking. I want as little interference as possible. have you firmly requested it or demanded your OB check if you really really want it?