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Not pregnancy related its about my 9 year old son. Does anyone have any experience with their child having add or ADHD?…

Not pregnancy related its about my 9 year old son. Does anyone have any experience with their child having add or ADHD? What are your thoughts on meds. He is a bright child but is failing 4th grade because he can't focus on his school work. He's always struggled with that here and there but this year is bad he's actually got a good chance at being held back. I already have my mom and MIL telling me I better not give him meds. I don't like the idea at all but its at the point I have to do what's best for him and not let him continue to struggle and feel horrible about himself because he thinks he's stupid.

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rylansmomma

Alissa Jackson

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I had it my whole life, I hated taking meds every day. Kept me in a blurry fog. But I was taking very high amounts of prescribed Ritalin long lasting. I'd suggest putting him on anything but that. Or adderall

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shelly

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I had a friend growing up that was on Ritalin and he ripped his braces off in my driveway because he said his teeth hurt so bad and alot of other stuff. I think it's been an issue since he was real little but its just really starting to affect his school now. I know I struggled in school as I got older and couldn't retain anything I read if there was even the slightest noise around me.

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shelly

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And thank you @rylansmomma I am getting nothing but attitude from the mothers. I'm not even at the point if meds right now im gonna try tutoring and a plan that allows him to be removed during tests.

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rylansmomma

Alissa Jackson

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That's what my teachers done for me, I was also put in a smaller class with less distractions. But the meds was all for my hyperactiveness. I grew out of most of it sometimes I still find myself distracted tho. @34466

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kimberlyyralph

Kimberly

I was on Adderall from age 7 to 18, I'm 20 now and have pretty much grown out of the ADHD but I was very fortunate that it was nothing but positive for me. When I started the dosage was too high and I was zombie like but once we got the mg to the right amount, it was good. only side effect i ever had was appetite suppression but without it I'd want to eat everything in sight so it wasn't a bad effect for me. if i were to be in the situation when my child were to get older, I'd give it a shot, in the hopes it worked as well for them as it did me.

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talbottgirl

felicia

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Ok I lived this first hand and I hated the meds. I was on concerta at first and it did nothing for me then my mom got me on adderall and I was learning to focus and being able to do my work but for me I couldnt eat and ended up losing weight like crazy. I would not be able to eat a single thing all day not even dinner because I just couldnt stand the taste of anything in my mouth. There was days were I was to weak to get out of bed and my mom had to pretty much force me to eat anything and it wouldnt be a lot if I even ate anything. I just dont see a point in putting a child on any kind of meds unless its medically necessary but thats just me because I lived it. I got better on my own and graduated high school without any meds.

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justinjrsmommy

Carol Burrough

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I have adhd and my mom put me on medication in high school because that's when it was at it's worst. If she had put her foot up my ass like she was supposed to I wouldn't have bipolar disorder too. Foot to ass don't have side effects.

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tahtahme

Tahtahme

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Have you tried changing his diet? My twin brother was on meds and they made him underweight and prone to strange behavior. When he was 16 he somehow was suddenly able to quit everything in able to join the Navy like he wanted to and has been fine since. My little brother is overweight now and on them. I begged not to be as a child and was able to do it.

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shelly

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Thank you everyone! I'm trying several things before I get to that point just wanted to go into it with more knowledge than I have now which is not much.

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