so.. is it weird that my bf/fiance doesn't take holidays serious like me growing up holidays have always been special because of family but to him they are just an ordinary day, for christmas he didn't get me a gift wich I said watever about.... even tho I was sort of hurt.. last year on valentine's day he didn't get me anything either and we ended up arguing because I surprised him at work with roses... this year I was talking to him about making plans or what he would like because he doesn't like chocolate and he shakes his head and tells me valentine's day doesn't matter it's another day... I understand that he feels that way..... but it's special to me....