I really need some help. My fiance and I live apart until we can get a car to get to and from work. But sometimes when he's not here or I'm not there, I wake up with my daughter in my bed with no recollection of doing so. I feel like my body needs someone 24/7 and having her next to me is soothing. That's fine, but I'm scared one of these times I'm going to get her and trip or something and I'm going to hurt her. Does anyone else have this problem? I'm really scared and I'm afraid if I talk to a doctor about it, they'll take her away. Can anyone give me advice?
@mommy_faith, no, but I'm afraid that when I get her, ill trip and hurt her because I'm unaware. It happened again last night. I don't know what to do
Ohh I didn't realize she is so old lol what do you think will happen? Are you a really heavy sleeper?
@mommy_faith, Yes but when I do put her in my bed, I get terrible sleep because I'm afraid something gonna happen. Plus, that's way too small for my boo. she's 9 months in three days.
They can't take her away unless you are actually hurting her or purposely putting her in danger! Maybe try to put her in your bed before you even go to sleep. Co sleeping can be very safe if you do it properly. Or you can get me of those by your side sleepers if you feel more comfortable with that. You can lay it right on your bed next to you.
If you do it before you go to bed for the night you sleep don't remember?