I've had some pretty bad contractions today. Heartburn, nausea, exhaustion. I am just worn out. My husband is taking me to the hospital tonight to see if I need to be admitted. My daughters friend is having a party and we hadn't rsvp because we don't know what's going to happen. Our girls want to be there when Adaline makes her debut. Well the girls mom showed up at my door to ask about them coming to the pool party. Is this what happens when you don't rsvp? She kept pushing the issue about them showing up. One of my kids has epilepsy she needs constant supervision around water. I said I'd talk to my husband but I am about to have a baby and I don't know if this is a good time. We'd be more then happy to send a gift or ask their grandma to take them. Seeing as its her first biological grandchild if I go into labor or I am admitted I don't think she'd want to miss it either. The mom kept pushing and pushing the whole thing. I don't even know what to say at this point. In our family babies are a family event and my kids are really excited about Adaline showing up. I can't wrap my brain around this.😑✋
if your kids understand what is going on and they know the best thing to be is around mama then that's all that matters. there will be plenty of parties. you don't have to explain yourself to that mother. if lastminute your kids can go then they can. nothing you need to stress over (:
After she didn't listen and left I sat down with them and asked them what they wanted and they said they'd rather be there when Addie is born. @lucyyxoxo_ I think her showing up at my door and being so aggressive and not listening really bugged me.