Am I the only one that gets irritated when people constantly ask if j need a babysitter? Like if I need a babysitter then I'll ask, I'm not one to go places without my kid and I never will be. Until she's old enough to tell me she wants to go visit someone or stay the night then it's not happening very often. Especially for her first holidays even if it is just Valentine's Day! It's her first and it's being spent with me and her father!