as much as I love and appreciate my man..I got upset today because I've ordered the same coffee order ever since we moved here in august (only difference is I get decaf now) and I asked him to pick some up for me and he brought me the wrong order. he got mad that I was disappointed because he said I should be appreciative and I am but I feel like he didn't really make an effort to get me what I wanted? am I crazy? I go out of my way everyday to make him what he likes/I take care of all the cooking and cleaning for us, I always remember his favorite orders when I bring him stuff home. ..I just want to feel like he is paying attention and actually coming through for me. needed to rant.
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You know what I have to do now? When I ask him to go get something like fast food or a drink or snacks I will literally write it all out in description lol. Like I want the hot Cheetos WITH LIME, bag is orange and it has a green flames. And lately he does better with that lmao
hahaha! right? I wanted iced coffee and he got it hot. so we tried to put ice in it and it just was not good at all. I ended up throwing away a 3 dollar drink and I'm trying to keep us on a tight budget to save for the baby so I was so bummed! talk about the ultimate preggo problems haha. my man doesn't even try to hide that he messed up. which is sweet in a way but the lack of attention bothered me today
@ameliask, right?? like it is little things but they make sure a difference, especially when you're pregnant and you can taste differences in everything! I prefer green grapes and hot cheetos to regular, too 😂 I do all three grocery shopping so I never have to worry about the wrong foods there..and he does get me lots of things that I don't ask for to surprise me but on those particular days when I really want something specific, damnit just get it right! haha.
@crazytoast, guys are so ridiculous 😂 like my boobs were already big before do we really have to be so interested when things are tender!!
Agh I completely know your pain!! My man does the same stupid shit, yet I remember his details what he likes. I ask for green grapes, this dude gets me red grapes. I ask for hot Cheetos and he gets some lay chips😒😒 I seriously will be in a horrible mood when he gets me the wrong shit..
@kimberkatherine, seriously, I got to the point where I told him if he didn't knock it off he wasn't going to be touching them at all and he got offended lmao.
@crazytoast, right? my man loves my boobs especially now that they're ginormous but I hate when he grabs at them or pokes them.
@kimberkatherine, my boyfriend can be the same way, he always tries to turn it around on me and make me feel bad for getting irritated at him. He wouldn't quit poking at my boobs and it was really painful I'd tell him to stop and he'd still do it so I was like what if I tapped you in the balls and you're like please don't that really hurt so I did it again, how would that make you feel? He's goes oh... sorry. Jeez it's like they think it's not a big deal when we mention something, nope just growing a baby over here no big deal at all lol.
That's a good idea @crazytoast I usually try to get him to see things from my perspective but he tends to shut down really easily and he is very stubborn. I know when to just let it go but being pregnant makes everything seem extra important
I think a lot of guys just don't see the little things as that big of a deal, which they obviously are to us. Maybe just tell him to imagine if he really wanted something specific and it was all he could think about and when he finally got it, it wasn't what he wanted at all and then you told him to just suck it up and be happy you even got him anything. It wouldn't be satisfying to him if it wasn't what he truly wanted. My boyfriend thankfully gets my thinking on wanting something specific, only because he knows he's the same way.
Hahaha that's awesome! @ameliask I was thinking of doing that to my man too.