Soooo, ik this is going to be a touchy subject but my little brother in-law is only 18 & dating a 26…

I would call child services Idc I can't stand those situations

how does you brother in law feel, he also has a saying in this its his child to, I mean you can't really do anything because she won't listen:( you cant help someone that doesn't wanna be help.. its sad how some moms don't care😢

unless you wanna report it to child services, there is nothing you can do. only they can take proper action. the sad part is, it's her child. I'm so sorry about your baby girl though ❤ I can't imagine the pain it gives you to see her not appreciating the precious life she is carrying. @mother.of.angels

Thats just soo wrong, that people like her get to be moms and those who would do anything to be a mom cant. She shouldnt be so freaking selfies, should think about the baby's health.

@mother.of.angels, I agree with @svickery_101010 there's nothing you can do really. Sending prayers

😕 So sad. But agreed-unless you report her, there's not much you can do.

they fight about it all the time, and he cant say nothing bc when he does then she packs up and takes off and you already know she holds the baby over his head. hes young and dumb he didnt even know redbulls or tylonal pm was bad for the baby. he knew she smoked she always has and wouldnt stop....she took complete advantage of his age. @neni0424

idk I feel like cps cant do anything or can they? @mimiz

they can do drug screens once the baby is born and take action but I don't think they can do anything before

damm, yeah I agree with this other mommas is report her, if she doesn't care at less you and your bro in law do!! @mother.of.angels

yeah thats what I figured, she lost her first child when she was a baby for drug abuse during pregnancy......never even tried getting her back shes now 7. @aliepaige @mommagotbump16 @maxs_mommy80 @deafmama16 @svickery_101010

It makes one angry that some moms can be like this. You would do anything to get back your beautiful angel and here she is not even care about hers kids and the unborn child.

I mean actually if talking to her doesn't get it through her thick skull then you can really only report her to be honest and they will take things in there hands and if she tries to say that he can't see the baby thats where she is wrong because they will honestly give the baby to him when it's born if she doesn't stop because she is being really selfish and they will get her help I know someone in similar situation and they actually told her the baby would get taken away from now she has to ge t drug tested and all that good stuff

@mother.of.angels, than she more likely to lose this child too unless your brother is capable to take care of the child. Since he know she does drugs he probably won't have legal rights to his child if cps and hospital finds out that he knew she was doing all that. What he can do is secretly go to her doctor and file a report and they can secretly drug test her at her appointment

Girl she's smoking ewes while pregnancy meaning she's doing drugs while pregnant yea the hell they can they will be waiting by the door when she goes into labor

I will see what I can do...I hope they can do something bc only god knows if that baby can survive 20 more weeks of all that :( its just bullshit!

I'm sorry but she doesn't deserve to get pregnant if she's going to endanger her unborn child like that. I can't stand when people are selfish like that

me neither it makes me sick... :( @firstbaby_girl