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How is it possible I didn't notice how absolutely lazy my husband is until we had our son! I have severe anemia from…

How is it possible I didn't notice how absolutely lazy my husband is until we had our son! I have severe anemia from pregnancy and from delivery so my energy level is incredibly low so as if I wasn't helpless enough recovering from a c section, I can't walk around for longer than a minute or two without feeling like I'm going to pass out. And he just sits here on the couch watching TV while there is trash sitting everywhere dishes all over the kitchen and when I ask him to do things for me he gets an attitude. I am so upset that this is who I married and now am about to raise a child with. I don't know what to do to help him see that he needs to get up and help!!!!

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katielong

Katie

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Oh how nice of him!! Mine does stay in bed with me so if I wake him up he'll grudgingly get up and get me something but he sleeps Thru the baby fussing and me getting him up to nurse so he might as well not be there. I'm bf'ing too but I could use some company when I get up for the 3rd time in the middle of the night and can barely keep my eyes open to nurse our child! But I guess I'll be grateful he stayed in our bed! @snb1121

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Shea

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@katiek113, my fiancé took 2 weeks off for baby and he slept in the guest bedroom every night so he could 'get a good night sleep' ..I'm bf but still

katielong

Katie

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At least I'm not the only one 🙄 @beckka23 @apb122393

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Rebeca De La Cruz

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i understand you😳

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Alex

I'm right there with you 😑

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