Since my daughter is a rainbow baby I'm becoming ever so anxious that there might be something wrong…

Trust me when I say this...You'll prefer knowing the unknown...I had no worries at all during pregnancy...now that she is here..I'm so paranoid..especially if someone has a cough etc 😐😐 I thought my last scan would be at 20 weeks..but I ended up needing a growth scan at 35+6 xx

@winterbaby95, I know I am being silly because she's been great the whole way through its just me that's suffered😂 no reduced movements and on point with growth and positioning herself for birth. I'm just at the point where I'd prefer her to be on the outside but then I'll probably worry more haha xx

@mamapop You'll deffo worry more! Sometimes I lay awake all night just watching her..especially when she has nightmares! I feel so sad for her! :( She slept on my chest last night as she wouldn't sleep anywhere else! xx

But not knowing and then facing something serious is horrible, I wish I had known about William before hand @winterbaby95 but don't worry @mamapop I am sure your baby is happy and healthy and will be here before you know it xx

@zaralee71 I understand that hun x x Must have been horrible:( I was just saying..I felt a lot calmer when my baby was inside me etcXx

I get what you were trying to say but I don't think you should have said that she would preffer not to know, especially when you haven't been in that situation. Although when your baby is born you are faced with worry that everything is ok with them even if they are healthy so I agree with that part @winterbaby95 at least you know they are safe inside you x

@zaralee71 Yeah, I didn't word it the right way. I just felt like my baby was safer inside me than out x x

I understand, as a mum you never stop worrying your worries just change. I worried a lot when pregnant, instances of reduced movement didn't help and now he's here (5 1/2 months old) I worry if he's eating is off, if he has a cold/cough, about his temperature, about SIDS etc etc....

My mummy friends have also said it doesn't stop after that, even down to how they're doing at school and when they're adults with babies of their own. Being a mummy means worrying about either a lot or a little amount of things depending on your anxiety levels. Like you say though, you've been given no reason to worry about this baby so far so I'm sure you'll both be fine. Hugs xx

What you are going through is completely normal @mamapop but w@winterbaby95 us right too everything is so much more intense when you feel the protective bubble of the womb has gone ...... @zaralee71 I think you jump on people far to often on here for their opinion and real life experiences yet are far too happy to give yours.... @mamapop I hope you get to meet ur little baby soon xx

If you read my second comment properly I said I agree that you worry alot even when the baby is healthy and I just said that you would want to know if there was something wrong. @mrsripper so i don't see how that is wrong

@zaralee71, I have read your comment and I have seen you say to more than one person on more than occasion that "you don't think they should say that, or think that" and basically just putting your opinion in and make them feel bad for having their own view or experience. ..... I'm just saying you have your opinion but don't ever tell people you don't think they should say things it's not ur place @zaralee71

I didn't actually realise I had done that to be honest @mrsripper I'll keep my opinions to myself from now on

@mamapop, just like to apologise for putting this on ur status .... @zaralee71 this site is about statuses and opinions and experiences and your more than entitled to say them but I'm just saying the quotes to people dismissing their experience or opinions is not fair ....

@mrsripper, it's okay. We're all hormonal pregnant women some of us are bound to clash sometimes😂x

I'll Deffo agree with that 😂😉 @mamapop x