is it possible to love step kids like you own?

yes

@boogersbugsanddirt, I tried that. it got so bad I moved out

my step daughter and i instantly fell in love with eachother. i am her most favorite person lol and she's mine❤ i came around when she was two though.

Can you try doing things they like with them?

@boogersbugsanddirt, it's been 8 years

My son's love my fiance, their step dad, but he is still kind of stand offish when it comes to them. It takes time to grow and get to know each other. Patience is the most important thing.

oh sorry @brookbrimommy419 maybe they just feel some type of way because their mother isn't around

@mommysbabydaddymaybe2, there mother passed away and I been in their life every since it's breaking me and their father up because we don't have a good relationship

me too @brookbrimommy419 we've been together for 8 years and sometimes you have to look over it especially if they have a mother that doesn't like you.... shell def do all she can to make her kids not like you at least that's the problem I have

@rachelirene, I love them just from a distance

@mommysbabydaddymaybe2, I been in they life 8 years and I don't see it getting better only worse

yes it is... you have to give it time they'll warm up to you.... I had the same problem for years but as his son got older he fell in love with me! I just had to have a lot of grown up/kid talks with him for him to understand who I am and what I'm here for! and it didn't make things harder because were both Geminis lol

still. you should love them because they're kids and your partners! God 💘 everybody!

@rachelirene, what if they don't like you?

Yes! 👍