I think it's possible for a person to change if they want to, but only with serious hard work, and possibly even counseling. But again, they have to want to change.

I understand that, but I honestly was a cheater in my past but with my husband I couldn't imagine doing it, I love him and have been nothing but loyal to him this entire relationship.

Never cheated on me, tht I know of, but he's told me tht he was a big cheater on his ex. soo which makes me think, could he be doing behind my back? it's always in the back of my mind. . @mrsdoyle

I think if he cheated on you in the past, he'd do it again. but if he cheated on someone else, it doesn't mean he'd do it to you.

this is true you let him get away with it once why not do it again

Accurate as hell, wouldn't ever put myself back in that situation